Wear what you want! At 59 years old, I got curious about bras. I tried on my wife's bra (38DDD). The hug from the band was amazing! Within a few weeks, I worked up the courage to ask for a fitting. I'm very happy I did.
I asked myself the same question after I had been wearing only panties for a few years (I started wearing them when I was six). Since then I have become a real "clothes horse", having more (female) clothes than my wife! So, to answer the original question, I will ask my (revised) version of the question, which is: Not 'what if', but when will I end up wanting more than just to wear panties?
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Pretty panties and sexy bra put me in my happy place and are made to be seen, not hidden.
Same here: Started out with just panties, because that was easier to hide. As more people become accepting of it, I found myself experimenting more into other lingerie and dress. I've found myself purchasing what I want to wear, and what I think looks cute with my existing attire.
I may wear button up shirt, and slacks at work, but I can guarantee that underneath I have on a garter belt, thigh high stockings, a bralette and of course panties over the garter straps (Because that's the right way). And no one beyond my wife is the wiser about what I have on.
It happens... while I bought a bra I only wore it a couple of times and just didn't care for it. My fetish runs toward the texture so a silky cami, panties or hose that feels sexy on my skin is amazing.
Shoes and skirts and makeup have no interest in my world.
Feeling feminine??? I just don't.
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Everything she wears is magic, everything she does just turns me on.
I also have had really no interest in things other than panties. I'd probably wear a skirt, but that's just because they seem pretty comfortable and nice to wear on a hot day!
Yeah, same here. I like most lingerie, and have to admit I like some shoes as well but no desire to go "whole hog" and try makeup and all that in an attempt to pass. (It would involve a LOT of shaving!!!)
I in no way feel "girly" just enjoy wearing some of their clothes, haha.
Okay, so... suppose you do? Do you let other people define you? Does it actually say anything about you, other than you like them? It's just cloth. Find your own way.
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Proud member of the panty-wearer to trans woman pipeline
Actually, I rather hope you do decide to wear more than "just" panties. I love all things lingerie. For me, it's a matter of finding or making the right opportunities to wear.
I'm perfectly comfortable wearing bra and panties to work. But I also respect my wife's desire to not see anything.
Let me just add here that the more so-called 'female' clothing that I'm wearing, the happier I am. I'm never trying to 'pass' as female, but rather I want to be recognized as "that guy in a dress" (or skirt or whatever). When I'm dressed 'en femme' in public, people both female as well as male often flirt with me or whistle at me. I believe that kind of 'attention' is the source of my happiness.
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Pretty panties and sexy bra put me in my happy place and are made to be seen, not hidden.
When I would wear panties and fantasize I was girl, soon I would fantasize about siturations where I was wearing women’s clothing, so I began to wear my mothered clothes (this is when I was a young teenager). During Covid I had the same urge, and I began wanting to know what it felt like to be a girl public, so I started to do quick trips in public, I would go buy panties in person at the stores when I was dressed up, and that feeling of being dressed up became more and more important to me and I wanted to do. The idea of having a girl name, people saying Ma’am or Miss, really made me feel special. I don’t go out a ton expect quick trips every so often and go only to certain places where I know it’s safe.
If you have a feeling of wanting to do more/where more than panties it’s okay! Try small steps, do little things, do only what you’re comfortable with. It’s no rush and there’s no trying to please anyone it’s about making you happy, and doing what you’re comforbale doing.
One of girl “outings” going is going to a local thrift store so I buy clothes that actually fit me and try different styles of dresses, skirts, jeans, tops. It took me a some time to be comfortable in the changing room, heck sometimes I still cry when I’m in there lol. But it helped me find more of style, I got to experience what being a girl in public was like, and it helped me find and set my comfort limitations.
I hoped this helps anyone who need it! My messages will always be open if anyone needs to talk more or has any questions!