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Forum Rules

This forum is intended to provide an atmosphere of open communication, where each member can share his or her own insights and opinions. If you have questions or comments about this forum (such as technical difficulties or performance issues), please contact the forum administrator.


1. Must be over the age of 18.

This forum may have content of a mature nature. If you are under 18 please visit This is an age-appropriate sex education site for teens that offers support on the matter, including cross-dressing.

2. All genders, sexualities, abilities, races, and religions are welcome here.

Do not post harassing or discriminatory comments based on race, ethnic origin, gender, or sexual orientation.

3. Do not post porn or erotica. Do not post anything graphic, offensive, sexually charged, or explicit.

All usernames, avatars, posts, and images must abide by these rules. It is not a place to post links to pornography or erotica. It is not a place for seeking out material you may use to masturbate. The forum should focus on giving support and advice.

4. Do not post threatening, abusive, defamatory, libelous, or illegal material.

5. Do not solicit or advertise.

Especially no advertising to selling of used panties and lingerie. This is also not a hookup site for solicitation.

6. Do not post about intentional exposure for the purposes of gratification.

If you have sexual fantasies of being caught in lingerie by strangers, role-play it in the same way people into BDSM roleplay being tied up and whipped. It is never okay to involve a nonconsensual party in your private sexual fantasies.

7. No promoting the theft of someone's panties or lingerie.

There are several reasons for not promoting this type of behavior.

  • It's a crime. (As everyone here knows, good panties don't come cheap.)
  • It's a horrible invasion of privacy. A person can feel incredibly violated by having their lingerie stolen.
  • It's unhygienic.
  • It perpetuates the stereotype of lingerie-wearing men being secretive perverts.

8. Do not share personal contact details, including but not limited to the following:

  • Email addresses
  • Phone numbers
  • Social media accounts (such as Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, and Facebook)
  • Any other offsite contact information

Image Posting Guidelines

These guidelines are subjective and moderators will have the final say in determining what is not appropriate. Because of limitations, there is no review process, but images can be deleted without notice.

These guidelines are, for the most part, in relation to images of panties and lingerie.

The main topics of this forum are panties, lingerie, and cross-dressing. This type of clothing comes with society's inherent sexualization of it. The main objective of the forum is for advice, support, and encouragement. There is a fine line between what kind of images are appropriate with that in mind.

If the purpose of the image is to be graphic, offensive, sexually charged, or explicit, then it shouldn't be posted. Nudity and pornography are not allowed.

Images that are from online stores or a store catalog, for the most part, will be allowed. These are professionally done and, most of the time, have a white background. The original purpose of these images is to promote and display a product to sell. Besides a few online vendors, they are generally not sexual in nature.

Personal avatars of members wearing their panties/lingerie will be allowed as long as they don't focus entirely on the crotch and are not sexual in nature (e.g. someone being in a sexual position). It is not allowed if an erection is noticeable.

Personal pictures of members wearing their panties/lingerie should be linked to other sites. Besides avatars, they cannot be embedded or displayed. This is to keep a good level of discourse and a more inviting atmosphere rather than a place for people looking for sexual content.


Any post that violates the above conditions, or departs from the intended purpose of this forum may be removed without notice by the administration.

We reserve the right to edit any post for reasons including, but not limited to: language, length, or content not appropriate to the topic of this forum.

Older threads or messages may be removed from time to time, to maintain categories or threads of manageable length.

Any member who breaches these guidelines through hostile, abusive, or other inappropriate behavior may find their account privileges revoked.


The views expressed by members of this forum are their own and do not reflect the position of the administrator or other members. Each member is responsible for the content of his/her own posts.

Please report any activity which is libelous, inflammatory, potentially illegal, questionable, or in violation of the rules to the forum administrator immediately.