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How can I feel more comfortable and confident wearing panties in public?
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Just do it! It may feel weird at first and you feel like everyone knows. The more you do it, the more it just feels natural to you. You may be turned on because of how taboo you think it is, but that too goes away with time. You will realize no one actually knows and it is just your little secret.



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Yes, what Kerry said! I was certain that everyone could see my panties. Right through the denim of my jeans. In plain sight.
The truth was that no one saw, no one noticed, and no one said anything. The next time, I was still certain everyone would know, but I had the same result. Absolutely nothing happened.
Now, many years later, I really don't care if somehow someone notices. If they have a problem, it's their problem, not mine. I'm perfectly happy wearing panties every day!

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It really is no big deal and it is your secret. Sometimes during the day I still think to myself, Hey I am wearing panties and that is a wonderful feeling and brings a smile to my face.
Once you start you will enjoy doing it and easily gain the confidence to continue

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I think it depends on where you are in your journey.

If it is new and naughty, maybe you haven't shared this with your wife/girlfriend yet... well there could be a number of things you're worried about.  That's okay.

If you were tighter pants or shorter shirts that could suddenly reveal your 'secret' by an inopportune reach for a shelf that may require some planning.

The thing is most people aren't going to be spending time looking for panty lines or gusset seams on a guy.  If they see panty lines, the brain just writes it off as a guy wearing briefs.

When I started wearing and my wife was getting used to it, we had an out of town trip for a company holiday party. I was excited to wear under my khakis for the drive and the party.  My wife was concerned that even a minor accident could land me in front of medical staff wearing women's satin panties.  

It just isn't anyone else's business and if I am exposed, who cares?  It happened to me once when I didn't plan for a doctor's visit and had the two female medical staff act very professionally and said nothing about my bright orange panties.  I didn't intend to share my interests that day but it didn't cause me anything but a little embarrassment that day.

Take it a step at a time. It is a choice. You can choose to wear fancy and frilly or plain and functional or be a chicken and flip back to male underwear (like I do) when your risk for exposure is higher.

I wear panties every day and the folks at TSA checkpoints don't know, the audience when I get at the front of the room and give talks don't know(no, I'm not famous, just a nerd)... it is fun, it is my little 'pick me up' and it makes me happy.

 



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Relax your insecurities and just enjoy the feeling of smoothness that no men's underwear can give. No one can tell unless you bend over and your shirts pulls up. But even then, it is so common today, only the most prudish of people care.

As sirmebane mentioned in his post that his wife was afraid of EMTs seeing her husband in satin panties, as a close friend of 2 active EMTs, they have told me they come across guys in panties all the time. It is not a big deal. They are there to help your physical needs and, to put it as they said, "We don't care what you're wearing, we've seen it all".

My wife has known about my panty wearing since we first started dating, she loves to feel and play we me through the nylon fabric. (in fact, she insists I wear them when we have sex).

I love the feel and I focus on that, not whether they are seen or not. I know it may not be easy for you, being concerned someone may notice and think something different about you. But after a while, you will learn not to care what others think and just have fun wearing something fun!

If you want, I can post the story of a lady sitting by me at a store and she saw my panty waistband and asked me about it.



-- Edited by Dane on Thursday 20th of April 2023 01:48:45 PM

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Just put them on and go about your business. As long as you keep your pants on, no one is going to be the wiser. I've been doing this for 29+ years and never a problem. I have some VERY PLAIN panties that I reserve for Dr. visits and, as I have said, I have NEVER had a problem. Just enjoy them and stop worrying!



-- Edited by panties1943 on Saturday 16th of September 2023 06:16:56 PM

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I'll admit early on I was fearful that people would somehow just know I was wearing panties just by looking at me but yeah that isn't likely. I know I felt pretty bold when I wore a pair (though fairly discreet) of panties to a physical and the doctor did the "turn your head and cough" thing. When I go for a massage I usually wear discreet panties but there are a few times I forgot and wore obvious ones and didn't bury them in my jeans. If either the doctor or masseuse noticed they didn't say anything.

One time I do regret being shameless was when I was at a convention and sharing a room with a friend and after showering just put on a pair of panties (lace bottomed ones at that) and went to bed. We weren't sharing a bed so I didn't think about it till afterwards which I apologized to him about it. He didn't seem to fussed about it I probably shouldn't have done that.

But yeah otherwise while not being ashamed of it I try to treat it like I would if I wore men's underwear. As far as I am concerned it is a privacy thing and something I don't need to advertise.

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