It's common for men who wear panties to experience feelings of shame or guilt due to societal stigmas and gender norms. It's important to remember that there is nothing inherently wrong or abnormal about wearing panties, and it's okay to enjoy wearing them. The more you do it, the more it just becomes normal to you. Over time you will see them as your panties.
When I'm asked by strangers: "Is that woman's underwear that you're wearing?", my response is usually something like: "Actually I'm wearing my own underwear, but thanks for asking".
As for me, I have never felt shame about what clothes I wear. Panties feel better than any other underwear, nylon nightgowns to sleep in feel better than any other PJs, women's nylon nightshirts and loungers feel better than anything else to relax in in the evening, so I wear them.
Even my kids are used to seeing me in women's nylon nightgowns and nightshirts. Always have ever since they were young.
There nothing to be ashamed of! Wear what you like and enjoy it. It was different 20 and 30 years ago. Panty wearing is more accepted by society today. We older wearers are the ones who hold onto the stigma that what we're doing is somehow wrong. Let it go.
I can say with myself that early on the shame and guilt of wearing panties and other item of women’s clothing led to me purging.
Purging is such a terrible thing and it will almost definitely lead to you regretting it. Never purge, put you girly stuff away but do not ever get rid of it.
If you are doing things that might be considered 'bad or nasty ', this could be the cause of the problem. If not, I say just enjoy the wonderful feel and fit that you get from the fabric and stop worrying!
I used to feel ashamed when I was young which caused me to purge. I don’t do that anymore. Many years have gone buy and I am comfortable with who I am now. The link is an empowering video you can listen to to help you keep your panties on.
I used to be worried about accidently revealing my panties but it was less that it was panties but the fact I wouldn't want people to see my underwear either way. But since I usually wear longer shirts that problem really hasn't come up or no one has said anything. Granted I haven't exactly stated it out loud either.
__________________
Wearing pretty panties since 10/2014.
No men's underwear in my possession since 12/30/2023.
Don’t let the genie out of the bottle. Keep your passion inside. Once you release, the man returns causing guilt and confusion making you do things you don’t want to like purge.
-- Edited by SilkySissy on Saturday 13th of January 2024 03:01:18 PM
__________________
You know what you MUST wear and what feels so wonderfully good.
I get great satisfaction wearing feminine panties.
