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How can I cope with the shame I feel for wearing and liking panties?

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It's common for men who wear panties to experience feelings of shame or guilt due to societal stigmas and gender norms. It's important to remember that there is nothing inherently wrong or abnormal about wearing panties, and it's okay to enjoy wearing them. The more you do it, the more it just becomes normal to you. Over time you will see them as your panties.



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Good point, Kerry.

When I'm asked by strangers: "Is that woman's underwear that you're wearing?", my response is usually something like: "Actually I'm wearing my own underwear, but thanks for asking".



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I wear pretty panties so that eyes up my skirt have a treat, rather than a treatment.

 

 

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What a great reply!!!

As for me, I have never felt shame about what clothes I wear. Panties feel better than any other underwear, nylon nightgowns to sleep in feel better than any other PJs, women's nylon nightshirts and loungers feel better than anything else to relax in in the evening, so I wear them. 

Even my kids are used to seeing me in women's nylon nightgowns and nightshirts. Always have ever since they were young. 



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There nothing to be ashamed of! Wear what you like and enjoy it. It was different 20 and 30 years ago. Panty wearing is more accepted by society today. We older wearers are the ones who hold onto the stigma that what we're doing is somehow wrong. Let it go.

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I can say with myself that early on the shame and guilt of wearing panties and other item of women’s clothing led to me purging.
Purging is such a terrible thing and it will almost definitely lead to you regretting it. Never purge, put you girly stuff away but do not ever get rid of it.

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Good point Crissy. The urge always comes back and things have to be replaced.

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If you are doing things that might be considered 'bad or nasty ', this could be the cause of the problem. If not, I say just enjoy the wonderful feel and fit that you get from the fabric and stop worrying!

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Don’t EVER feel ashamed for wearing lingerie!!
You are you, be happy in yourself and confident in what you wear.

Stay well :)

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I used to feel ashamed when I was young which caused me to purge.  I don’t do that anymore.  Many years have gone buy and I am comfortable with who I am now.  The link is an empowering video you can listen to to help you keep your panties on.

https://youtu.be/T97wWyojBxM?si=VhF5Pp_liEKYBhDy



-- Edited by SilkySissy on Sunday 3rd of December 2023 08:19:51 PM

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You know what you MUST wear and what feels so wonderfully good.

I get great satisfaction wearing feminine panties.

 

Wearing panties feels so amazing!!

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Here is a video to help melt away your shame.  Also beautiful models wearing Katie and Laura’s panties.

 

https://youtu.be/R8LEgs04JG8?si=b4SsmxtUz3EHdGzY

 

 

 



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You know what you MUST wear and what feels so wonderfully good.

I get great satisfaction wearing feminine panties.

 

Wearing panties feels so amazing!!

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I used to be worried about accidently revealing my panties but it was less that it was panties but the fact I wouldn't want people to see my underwear either way. But since I usually wear longer shirts that problem really hasn't come up or no one has said anything. Granted I haven't exactly stated it out loud either.

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Wearing pretty panties since 10/2014.

No men's underwear in my possession since 12/30/2023.

Nightgowns are life.

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Don’t let the genie out of the bottle. Keep your passion inside. Once you release, the man returns causing guilt and confusion making you do things you don’t want to like purge.



-- Edited by SilkySissy on Saturday 13th of January 2024 03:01:18 PM

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You know what you MUST wear and what feels so wonderfully good.

I get great satisfaction wearing feminine panties.

 

Wearing panties feels so amazing!!

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