I think a common misconception is that men who wear panties are fetishists. There are some men that may wear panties for fetishistic reasons. Many others wear them simply because they find them comfortable or enjoyable to wear. There is nothing inherently sexual or fetishistic about wearing panties.
Good point Kelli!
Another question from the SO is, Do you want to be a woman? That may be the eventual end game for some but most will say no, not at all.
I agree with Crissey, in that I don't want to become a woman, but I do totally enjoy occasionally being treated like one.
Such is the case when we go out on a date and my wife drives, holds doors open for me and other stuff like that while I'm all made up by wearing panties, bra and garter stockings (nylons) under one of my beautiful evening dresses with matching stilettos.
She calls that "getting you (me) all girled up", whereas I call it "Heaven on Earth".
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Pretty panties and bra put me in my happy place and are made to be seen, not hidden.
"I think a common misconception is that men who wear panties are fetishists. There are some men that may wear panties for fetishistic reasons. Many others wear them simply because they find them comfortable or enjoyable to wear. There is nothing inherently sexual or fetishistic about wearing panties."
When I started wearing panties it was a bit of fetish as when I'd peruse I'd tend react in that way and would often relieve it but I haven't had that happen in a long while as it has just become my normal.
"Another one is that those men are gay. I think there have been studies showing that most men who wear panties are hetero and married."
When I started I thought I was straight but realized a few years ago that I was in fact gay. Not flamboyant or anything just into men. I got to wonder if I ever find myself in a relationship that he'd be okay with his boyfriend wearing panties.
"Another question from the SO is, Do you want to be a woman? That may be the eventual end game for some but most will say no, not at all."
I'm pretty comfortable in my masculinity even in panties and while wearing some women's clothes is fun not preferable to me outside of panties.
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Wearing pretty panties since 10/2014.
No men's underwear in my possession since 12/30/2023.